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My Healing Journey

Opening up and sharing one's pain with the world is a courageous and vulnerable act. Despite the challenges, I believe in the power of using my own healing journey as a source of inspiration for others. My blog serves as an open door, inviting others to join me on this path of healing, resilience, and personal growth. Together, we can navigate the obstacles, find strength in vulnerability, and continue to evolve into the best versions of ourselves.

Embracing Challenges: Spreading Help and Kindness

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Throughout my career, I have dedicated myself to working with nonprofits and associations. Many wonder why I willingly embrace the challenges that come with it. The answer is simple: I believe that everyone deserves a helping hand in this world. In a time filled with selfishness, I have made the choice to give and demonstrate that help is always available. People may judge me without knowing my story, but the truth is that helping others is ingrained in my soul. While I understand that I can't assist everyone, I find immense fulfillment in supporting those who are ready to help themselves. I did not reach this point alone; others have been there to lend their support.


It's remarkable how strangers can enter your life and transform it in unimaginable ways. Never forget the selfless acts that have shaped your journey.


There are certain moments in life that leave an indelible mark on our hearts. One such moment occurred during my twenties when I juggled three jobs—a full-time day job, a full-time night job, and a part-time weekend job—while also taking classes. One night, while serving at a popular restaurant chain, a lady and her toddler walked in. The child started to cry, and the mother wore an expression that said, "I just need a peaceful meal." Drawing upon my babysitting experience and interactions with my baby cousins, I decided to distract the child. We colored and sang songs together while the mother enjoyed her meal, and the child ate his food. When they left, she left me a $40 tip on a $25 bill. She scribbled "thanks" on the receipt, and I never forgot the impact she had on me. I had never realized that something as simple as providing a moment of respite could brighten someone else's day. That incident made me reflect on the importance of being kind to others and treating them as they deserve.


Another unforgettable moment occurred when I walked into a tea shop, and the lady behind the counter greeted me with the warmest smile. She cheerfully asked how my day had been going, and I replied, "Awesome! How is your day going?" In response, her eyes welled up with tears, and she confessed that I was the first person who had asked about her day. I felt a mix of confusion and sadness upon learning that people often fail to reciprocate smiles, compliments, or even a simple inquiry about one's well-being. This small act of service made a significant impact on both of us. It reinforced my belief that we cross paths with others for a reason, just as strangers have crossed my own path. Sometimes, people come into our lives to remind us to keep shining brightly. I can only hope that the lady at the tea shop learned to remain true to herself, irrespective of whether others returned her positive energy.


During the pandemic, I worked as a CBD consultant. One day, a lady walked into the store and began pouring out her heart to me. From her aches and pains to past ailments and even the names of her doctors, she spoke non-stop for an entire hour. Though it drained my energy, I allowed her to vent. After she finished, I spoke to her about CBD—its benefits, various uses, and how different products could potentially alleviate some of her issues. As she reached the door to leave, she turned around, tears streaming down her face, and uttered a heartfelt "thank you" for simply listening. She expressed that no one had ever taken the time to truly hear her. Although I needed a pick-me-up after she unloaded her emotions on me, I felt grateful that I could be there as a listening ear and help alleviate her stress by providing an outlet for her to release.


In these tumultuous times, when the world seems chaotic, let us not forget the power of kindness. We are all grappling with pain and grief in our own ways, and it is through acts of compassion that we heal and uplift one another.




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